I've done the friends with benefits thing plenty of times, and usually it works out good. Some haven't. For anyone who is looking to give this a go I thought I'd give you some advice. Trust me, I've done a lot of research on this subject.

Ok, if you both seem to want the same thing then go for it, but before you do lay out all the ground rules. Make sure she knows its just going to be something you two are going to do as a mutual trade. She gets some, and you get some, supply and demand. If you can both agree that you only want to have sex and don't want to change your relationship then you should be able to handle it. Just remember two things: (1.) You both agree that if something better comes along (e.g. boyfriend/girlfriend) you go for it. (2.) No kissing on the mouth, sex can be without emotion, but a kiss usually isn't. (3.) if you don't you both agree that after sex if one of you, or neither of you want to cuddle it is fine to take off, or to ask the other person to leave.


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