Soul Fusion

It's security. As human being we are all afraid, and when we're in charge of our own lives we've terrified. There is no set path for any of us. But giving up you individuality to be a part of something give great comfort. (This is the reason major religions still thrive.) When someone fuses with someone else in a relationship they sacrifice I for we.

And this works for a while, individuality gives way to comfort and security. But this can't last, soon comfort becomes a natural state and becomes something you never think about, like air. (you don't' realize you need air till you don't have any.) when this stage is reached one partner can look at the other and see there is nothing to them, nothing special, nothing new, and thus they move on. The only solution to this is to not completely fuse. Each partner in the relationship should have their own interests, own likes, and own friends. That way at the end of the night they can talk about things other than work and school. They can enjoy their differences and stay bonded together.


Exile

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