Something For You To Ponder
In my younger years, I was given advice from numerous sources in regards to relationships. A great deal of it tended to overlap until it unified into a single theory.
My question is this
1. What was your initial thoughts on this?
2. What are your objective thoughts on this?
3. Would you make an amendment to this? (if so, what?)
Exile
Original_exile@hotmail.com
if you truly love a woman, treat her like she means the world to you, but never tell her. Because no woman ever wants to believe that the man she is with is really the best she could ever do with her life.
My question is this
1. What was your initial thoughts on this?
2. What are your objective thoughts on this?
3. Would you make an amendment to this? (if so, what?)
Exile
Original_exile@hotmail.com
posted by exile at
11/13/2006 08:38:00 PM
8 Comments:
Personally...I think it is kinda silly. Why would a woman not want to know how the man she loves OR the guy who loves her, feels about her.
There are a lot of women and men out there that are always gonna look for something better...even when the best is sitting right in front of them. They are fools!
In my eyes when you love someone you tell them. Love is a hard emotion because it is SO easy to get hurt. But how are you gonna know how the other person feels, unless you tell them. Its about risk, putting yourself out there and at least trying to have that connection.
Some people cannot do that. Whether they were taught not to talk about emotions or they have already been burned in the past.
By
Anonymous, at Tuesday, November 14, 2006 5:04:00 AM
hella- i find it funny that every time i've been in the situation i've always said exactly how i felt, and i've been burned every time.
i guess it's the acid test, i mean, either the other person can handle it or they can't.
By
exile, at Tuesday, November 14, 2006 5:11:00 AM
I think it's crap actually. lol I love looking at Seanand thinking "this is my life... this couldn't get any better". makes waking up every day so much more worth it to know that I've got exactly what I've always wanted. =)
By
Robyn, at Tuesday, November 14, 2006 7:22:00 AM
Women want to be treated well but they don't want their men to be pushovers or doormats.
By
Randi, at Tuesday, November 14, 2006 10:04:00 AM
i would like the man to tell me i mean the world to him. hell, i think i need to hear that. of course, his actions must prove it too. it's a two way thing. both parties are responsible.
By
mistipurple, at Tuesday, November 14, 2006 10:32:00 AM
I recently had a man tell me that he was the best thing that had ever happened to me. Then he told me that I *could* do better.... I just never had. It made me laugh.
I think you should treat the woman in your life like you really love her and want to be with her. Unless you don't. Then get a new girlfriend.
bec
By
Anonymous, at Tuesday, November 14, 2006 12:48:00 PM
I think thats absolutely crazy... I think if you love someone and care for them alot then you should tell them, Why wouldnt you? Every girl would want to hear those words from the guy that she loves..And life is to short not to express yourself the way that you want.
An example: what if you wanted to tell your girl that you loved her but decided not to and the next day she dies... would you regret it?? I make alot of decisions by asking myself if i would regret it or not and it usually works...
By
Hollz, at Tuesday, November 14, 2006 12:54:00 PM
robyn- awwwww, well i've always said you two are the exclusion to most of the rules.
randi- true, i think that's why when the situation arises she usually leaves. by saying how he feels he's admited that he can do no better she wonders why...
misti- very true, the works only mean something if you stand by them.
bec- i agree with treating her that way, but the question is about saying it
hollz- it does seem crazy, but every time i've been in the situation it's always proved true
By
exile, at Wednesday, November 15, 2006 10:45:00 PM
Post a Comment
<< Home