I'm Proud Of You Kayten

This is a comment I left on Kayten's blog (http://privatevivification.blogspot.com/). You might want to hit her blog to get everything I'm writing about.



The days of the scarlet letter are long since past. While we do live in a society where we put so much emphasis on equality, we still regard women with strong sexual desires as whores.
is it possible to find everything you could ever want in one person? Sure, but it comes with a heavy price. Often times we sacrifice the things we want and choose complacency over happiness. "well, I'm married with children, i guess i don't need sex."

We are a generation attempting to follow the false examples our parents placed before us. We all grew up with mom and dad sitting on opposite ends of the couch, while TV preached morality.
the ideal marriages that we fondly look back on as our guides are in fact false. marriages were not happy back then. Mom sacrificed her identity to become mom. Dad tied himself to the harness and pulled his yoke till he died. There was no love, just obligation. This is no longer the world we live in.

Our emotions are actually important, and we have no one to look to as a role model. We are on our own to find happiness and self realization.

Kayten had an affair. She had one because she had needs that should have been met, but weren't. This doesn't make her a bad person. She is a woman, a woman who is a mother. She is a woman who works, and wants to enjoy life. She is doing her best, and we should be proud of her.
as she said before, she doesn't advocate this life, but she does live it.

She has not given up on passion, she has not given up on life. Kayten is doing the best she can and deserves our support.

If you can't see any of this in her, then not only are you blind, but you live a very passionless life.


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